My roommate once had a boyfriend who suddenly lost interest in her after two months of dating.
The man who before then was all over her and visibly very attracted to her suddenly became nonchalant and could not care less about her.
The weeks leading up to the end of the relationship were sad for her.
She was so miserable when she found out the reason for his behavior.
He had met someone.
If you are in a situation where you suspect that your boyfriend is no longer attracted to you, you may be scared that your relationship is gradually coming to an end.
Although attraction is not all there is in a relationship, it is a significant part of every relationship, and the absence of it can leave the relationship in a bad state.
However, before you begin to nurse fears about your relationship, you must first make sure you are right about your boyfriend not being attracted to you.
The signs below will help you confirm that your boyfriend is not attracted to you;
10 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Attracted To You
1. He Never Compliments You.
A classical sign that your boyfriend is not attracted to you is that he never compliments you.
Men are drawn by what they see, and they often say it.
When a man is attracted to his woman, he will likely express it at every chance.
Compliments are proof that a man is physically attracted to his woman.
If your man does not compliment your look, it is a sign that he is not attracted to you.
It is also essential to understand that your man is not meant to compliment you only when you look your best; he is also meant to tell you how amazing you are and look, even when you look basic and normal.
2. Your Boyfriend Does Not Want To Hang Out With You.
Another sign that your boyfriend is not attracted to you is that he never wants to hang out with you.
Men love to flaunt their women and show them off.
A man, especially one who loves to go out or hang out with friends, will always want to hang out with his woman.
He will want to show her off and flaunt her to everyone who cares to look.
However, when the man is not attracted to the woman, he will not want to hang out with her.
You may notice him avoiding outings or events when you both have to go together.
3. He Tells You
Sometimes, you may not need signs to know that your boyfriend is not attracted to you because he tells you himself.
He may have said it passively or as a joke.
You probably thought he did not mean it or was only kidding.
But chances are very high that he meant what he said.
His behavior may buttress his words, or it may not.
No matter what he does or does not do, if he has told you directly or indirectly that he is not attracted to you, your better take that seriously.
4. Your Boyfriend Stops Initiating Physical Intimacy
Depending on the physical intimacy you used to have with your boyfriend, you may notice a decline in it.
If you and your boyfriend used to have sex before, when he stops being attracted to you, the sex will become less frequent or completely absent.
Even if you both agreed to stay celibate and abstain from sex, you might still notice that the other forms of physical intimacy reduce.
He no longer hugs you or holds your hands as much.
5. His Efforts In the Relationship Reduce
Another way to know that your boyfriend is not attracted to you is that he no longer puts effort into the relationship.
His passion and zeal to make things work and make you happy go down.
When he no longer finds you attractive, he sees no need to pursue you further, so he relaxes.
6. Your Boyfriend Now Treats You Like A Friend
When physical attraction exits, your boyfriend will begin to act formally and cordially with you.
He no longer uses sweet and endearing terms and calls you friendly names.
You may notice that he calls you by name and relates with you like a casual roommate or platonic friend.
7. He Makes Unpleasant Comments About Your Body
Sometimes as a lady, your body can undergo various changes owing to hormones, lifestyle, menstruation, or even pregnancy.
Your body may have undergone some changes recently, and while battling with your self-esteem, your boyfriend makes an unpleasant comment about your body.
His words are a reflection of how he feels about you.
Unfortunately and sadly, it tells that he is not attracted to your body.
8. You Fight More
Another thing you may notice that points to the fact that your boyfriend is no longer attracted to you is that his fights with you become more frequent.
The number of times you fight increases, and the intensity of the fight too.
You may have been wondering why.
Well, now you know.
9. He Gets Upset Easily
Your boyfriend getting angry at you for the tiniest things can signify his declined attraction to you.
He is likely to be more patient and forgiving to you when the physical attraction is present.
Your flaws and mistakes are easily overlooked, but when he does not find you attractive, everything you do pisses him off.
He may even become irritable around you.
10. Your Partner Is Spending More Time Apart From You.
Lastly, you can confirm your boyfriend’s lack of attraction to you by where he spends his time.
If he is attracted to you, he will want to spend more and more time with you.
The quality time you spend with each other will increase.
But if he is not attracted to you, you will notice he begins to spend more apart from you.
Final Words
Discovering that your boyfriend is no longer attracted to you can be devastating.
You may feel all forms of negative feelings and suffer from low self-esteem.
It is important to note that it is usually not your fault.
You may try to upgrade your physical appearance, but there is no assurance that it will make his attraction for you come back.
Besides, if he comes back to you solely because of your appearance, you can not count on it because that is a superficial reason.
If you are in this situation, do not beat yourself up.
I would recommend that you have an open conversation with your boyfriend about it and decide if you both need to go your separate ways or if it is something that can be worked out.
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