Have you been looking for ways to capture your man’s attention for a long period of time?
Look no further as I am about to share simple and practical ways to go about it.
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10 Texts That Will Have Him Reaching for His Phone
Here are some examples OF TE:
1. Tease Him Playfully
Make him curious by sending teasing texts.
For it to be effective send it in the form of a question
This will help to spark curiosity in him.
For instance, “Guess what I’m thinking about right now?”
He might guess, are you thinking about our date?
This will keep the conversation going and allow you to add elements of fun to it.
The open-ended nature of the question will naturally provoke curiosity.
He’ll likely start to think about the various possibilities of your thoughts to know what’s exactly on your mind.
The result of this is that he stays curious and wants to speak with you.
Naturally, when a person is curious, they want to talk to you till they find answers to their curiosity.
This will keep the conversation going and make him respond quickly to your messages.
2. Compliment Him
Men love when you compliment them.
It’s an ego booster. It makes them stick around and make them want to do more.
When you compliment your man through text, it captivates his attention and makes him respond promptly to subsequent texts.
For instance when you say, “I can’t stop thinking about how you looked yesterday”
“That shirt brings out your eyes, you should wear it more often”
He might say Thanks, I’m glad you noticed, you looked good too.
This response will keep the conversation going.
In fact, it doesn’t only keep the conversation going, it will equally make him do more of what you complemented him.
3. Reference A Memory You Share with Him
Bring up an experience you both share.
For instance, if you’ve been on a trip together, reminisce about the trip.
Tell him how much you enjoyed it and how you look forward to more experiences like that.
You can ask him which part of the trip he loves the most.
That way he’ll share his most loved part of the trip.
Chances are that when he’s done, he’ll ask you to talk about yours too.
Doing this will keep the conversation going.
He’ll stick by his phone for a longer period.
To buy more time, do not make the conversation about him alone.
Make it interactive, talk about yourself, don’t just keep asking him questions.
If the conversation is one-sided, he’ll lose interest easily and that will end the conversation.
4. Send him Flirty and Fun Messages
Another way to make your man stick to his phone talking to you all day is by sending him flirty messages.
While at it don’t give it all away, pique his curiosity.
You can structure the text in a question format, make it suggestive and seal it up with some flirty emojis.
For instance; Guess what I’m thinking about right now?
Just saw something that reminded me of you….
In the examples cited above, these sentences will pique his curiosity, make him ask more questions and continue the dialogue.
If you continue with this format you might just hold the conversation all through the day, as this will lead to a series of other conversations.
5. Romantic Messages
Stick to romantic messages if you are unsure of which text message to send to your man.
Sending romantic messages already encapsulates enough emotions.
He’ll understand your thoughtfulness and how deep your emotions are if he’s discerning enough.
With that, he’ll want to be there for you all through the day —every day.
You can send some of these:
- Every time I see you, I fall in love all over again.
- You make my heart skip a beat every time I think of you.
- I can’t imagine my life without you. You’re my everything.
- Just wanted to remind you how much you mean to me. I love you more than words can say.
- Every moment with you is a treasure. I cherish you more than you know
6. Mention Something He’s Passionate About
I mean he is your man and you must be familiar with the kind of things that excite him.
Bring up topics that interest him and watch him talk to you all day.
If you want this to work fully, research the topic before starting the conversation, that way you won’t run out of points.
Also, neither of you will get bored by the conversation
For instance:
- I wonder why the USA and China have been at loggerheads recently, do you have any idea?
- If diplomacy interests him, this type of question will make him talk nonstop.
7. Ask Him Some Personal Questions
You can also ask him personal questions to keep him talking.
Incite the urge in him to keep talking by asking him personal questions.
He’ll understand that you are only trying to get to know him more.
Doin this can lead to a variety of topics, from his childhood memories to his future aspirations.
Likewise, His answers can naturally lead to follow-up questions, creating an ongoing dialogue.
This back-and-forth keeps the conversation flowing and interesting.
For instance:
- Is there a hobby you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet?
- What’s your favorite childhood memory?
- What’s the most challenging part of your career?
8. Share Jokes With Him
A good joke can break the ice and make him feel more relaxed and open to conversation.
If the joke is about something you both find funny or have experienced together, it can create an inside joke, which strengthens your bond and gives you something to reference in future conversations.
Likewise, humor encourages creative thinking.
When you tell a joke, it might inspire him to share his own jokes or funny anecdotes, leading to a lively and engaging conversation.
For instance;
- Why don’t we ever tell secrets on a farm? Because the potatoes have eyes and the corn has ears.
- Do you have a map? Because I keep getting lost in your eyes.
- Why don’t scientists trust atoms? Because they make up everything.
9. Send Flirty Selfies
A flirty selfie instantly grabs his attention, making him more likely to respond quickly.
Men are often visually oriented, so a flirty selfie can be very captivating and enticing.
A flirty selfie can make him eager to see and hear more from you, keeping him intrigued and interested.
He may wonder where you are, what you’re doing, and what prompted the selfie, leading him to ask questions and keep the conversation going.
Mixing flirty selfies with texts and questions keeps the conversation dynamic and interesting, preventing it from becoming monotonous.
After the initial flirty exchange, the conversation can naturally flow into more meaningful topics.
10. Take Breaks in Between Texts
When you pause between texts, it makes him curious about what you’re doing or thinking.
This curiosity keeps him engaged and eager for your next message.
Constant, rapid-fire texting can be overwhelming and lead to conversation burnout.
Taking breaks helps keep the exchange manageable and enjoyable.
The anticipation of hearing from you again can make him more invested in the conversation, as he looks forward to your next reply.
For instance:
- Just finished reading an amazing book! What’s a book that you’ve enjoyed recently?” (Send, then take a break.)
- I tried a new recipe today. It was a bit of a mess but fun! Do you like trying new recipes?” (Pause after sending.)
Conclusion
Capturing your man’s attention through text should be fun an easy.
You can try sending him a flirty selfie, make jokes and ask questions partaining to his interest.
We’ve also discussed other ways to capture his attention in this article.
We hope they com in handy.