Not living in the same location with your man can sometimes make you doubt his love for you.
You begin to question whether or not he misses you.
That feeling is familiar as I’ve had to deal with it during my boyfriend’s stay abroad for his master’s degree.
With first-hand experience, I’ve come to share with you signs that he misses you right this moment.
There are attitudes he puts up when he misses you.
You might miss these clues if you are not familiar with long-distance relationships.
In this blog post, I’ll address clues that he’s missing you right this moment.
12 Clues That He’s Missing You Right This Moment
1. He Calls or Texts You Frequently
Home is where the heart is doesn’t necessarily mean the physical home.
A significant other can be your home.
When your boyfriend misses you when he is away, one of the ways to know is how frequently he texts you.
If he continuously blows up your phone, then that is a clue right there.
He misses you and can’t wait to see you again.
That is a subtle way of telling you that you are on his mind and he wants to check if he is on your mind too.
So, in case you are wondering why he keeps calling you even when there is nothing to talk about, it is because he misses you.
2. He Talks About Moment From the Past
When he brings up memories of time spent together it means he misses you right that moment.
This memory could be both of you on vacation, dinner together or even a movie night.
Bringing up this memory shows that he cherishes does moment and perhaps wants to re-create it when he’s back.
And most importantly he is thinking of you.
3. He Responds to Your DMs and Calls Promptly
If he picks up your call before the second ring or replies to your DMs within seconds then chances are that he was expecting you to call or text.
This prompt response is an indication that he misses you and that you are on his mind.
4. He Stays in Contact With Your Family and Friends
He is a way but still talks to your friends and family, then you are on his mind.
That’s probably his way of asking them to take good care of his baby.
It also means you are on his mind and he wants to keep in touch with the most important people in your life.
5. He’s Curious about Your Day and Plan
He’s away but constantly asks what your plans are for the day and how your day is going, then he misses you.
It means that he is interested in everything that is going on with you.
Even though he can’t make it there physically, he wants to be there for you in spirit and emotionally.
He wants to cheer you on from wherever he is.
He could care less if he doesn’t miss you.
6. He Tells You About His Day
Updating you about his moves every day is a sign that he misses you.
He wants you to be actively involved in his life and vice versa.
He wants to carry you along in all his plans
That way he will feel closer to you all the time.
This could also mean he relies on you for emotional support while he’s away.
7. He Wears A Cloth You Gifted Him
You notice your boyfriend wears or uses a gift you gave him more frequently —say a watch or jersey you gave him during his last birthday.
This is an indication that he misses you so much.
He is wearing the gift as a link between you and him.
It also makes him feel as though you are around him.
It’s like having a piece of you on him.
8. He is Active on all Your Social Media
If he is always the first to view and like every story you share.
He even go as far as reposting your statuses.
Don’t fret!
There is only one explanation for such a behaviour.
And the perfect interpretation of it is that he misses you
He seizes every chance he gets to start up a conversation with you
Also, it could mean that he can’t get enough of you.
So, it’s actually not something to fret about.
And no, he is not stalking he simply misses his girl.
9. He Talks About Random Stuff
If you want to know how badly your man misses you, pay attention to the kind of conversations he has with you.
If you notice he keeps talking nonstop about random stuff with no cogent point, he misses you.
The reason he strikes up this random and unending conversations is just to keep you guys talking.
He wants to keep talking to you every minute he gets.
A person will do this only if they miss you.
10. His face Brightens Up When He Sees You
Is he all smiles when he sees you? A man grins from ear to ear when he misses you.
Hiding how much he misses you becomes difficult for him.
There is suddenly a gait in his step.
While he might not expressly says that he misses you, his attitude and reaction will give him away.
So pay close attention.
11. He Buys You Thoughtful Gifts
Maybe you mentioned that you wanted an item during one of your conversations and he comes to visit bearing the item.
That can only mean one thing.
You’ve been on his mind and he misses you.
This is too show that you occupied his mind all the time and he pays close attention to every details about you.
12. He Says
What other way to show a person how you feel than telling them expressly?
While not all men have the balls to express how they feel as they deem it as vulnerability, some men are quite expressive.
So, when your man says he misses you, best believe he truly does.
When he says it, he wants you to know how much effect you have on him and how much he misses you.
Conclusion
The frequency of calls and texts from your man can determine if he is missing you or not.
If he is blowing up your phone, then he misses you and if otherwise, you know what it means.
There is always a sign whether that shows whether or not your man misses you.
It is left for you to decipher.