Before we proceed, we need to establish the fact that there are different angles to seeing signs he has no feelings for you.
Most times, you start looking out for these signs after getting a hunch from your instincts that he may not have or no longer has any feelings for you.
In some cases, it may not be true because the guy may be confused and can’t precisely place what he feels for you.
Similarly, it might look like he has no feelings for you because he’s still struggling with past trauma that’s affecting his behavior toward you.
Also, if you feel that he has no feelings for you any longer, it can be that you’re both fighting and not speaking to each other at the moment, which you can translate to him not caring for you or having feelings for you.
Then, again, he might actually have no feelings for you.
Now that we’ve got these angles out of the way let’s look at the possible signs he has no feelings for you.
7 Signs He Has No Feelings For You
1. You’re always reaching out to him
Are you the one always reaching out to him and initiating contact?
It’s one of the telltale signs he has no feelings for you.
A man who has feelings for you will reach out to you, call you, and text you just to hear from you.
It doesn’t matter how busy he is.
He’ll create time, even if it’s a few seconds, to know how you’re doing.
But this guy never reaches out, calls, or texts you.
Most of your texts to him go unreplied.
He doesn’t take some of your calls and doesn’t call back, either.
He sees your trying to establish communication with him as a disturbance to him.
He probably has no feelings for you.
2. He leaves you in your most vulnerable state
If a man has feelings for you, he’ll hardly leave you, let alone leave you in your most vulnerable state.
A man who is in love never abandons his woman, especially when she’s at her lowest point.
He’ll stand by you and refuse to leave, no matter how you push him away.
Even if you succeed in pushing him away, he won’t stay away for long.
The heart knows what it wants.
He’ll come running back to you because he knows that you need him the most at that point.
A guy who has no feelings for you can’t relate to the scenario above.
He’ll not even care about your condition in the first place.
Even if you call him to be by your side, he’ll come up with some flimsy excuse for why he can’t stay.
3. He makes you feel like an option to him
If he has no feelings for you, that’s exactly what you are to him – an option.
Your feelings, interests, welfare, and everything that concerns you will be the last thing on his mind.
In fact, you are none of his business.
You only come to his mind whenever he needs anything from you.
He’s always thinking about himself, his job, his welfare, and maybe other women.
In all of these, though, there’s one question you should be asking yourself – “does he care about my feelings whenever he’s this way?”
If he still cares even a tiny weeny bit about your feelings while being self-centered and making you an afterthought, then there’s a glimmer of hope for you to hold on to.
There might still be remnants of feelings remaining inside him for you.
But if he doesn’t care about how you feel in all of this, I’ll advise you to forget about him.
He has no feelings for you anymore.
4. He gives more attention to his phone than to you
Does he give his phone more attention than he gives to you?
It’s one of the signs he has no feelings for you.
Although in this time and age, it’s common for people to be very attached to their phones, if a man has feelings for a woman, he’ll shift the focus from his phone and make time to be with her.
He’ll pay attention to her.
It’ll come so naturally to him because he’s drawn to her.
In the eyes of a man who has feelings for a woman, what’s a phone compared to her?
Nothing!
Even a man whose job and business need him to spend more time on the phone for maximum success will make time to leave the phone and spend quality time with a woman if he has feelings for her.
He’ll explain this to the woman and assure her that a phone cannot put a dent in what he feels for her.
On the other hand, if he’s always on the phone, claiming to be busy or maybe even for no reason at all, in your very presence, that guy doesn’t have any feelings for you.
I think he’s even out to hurt you by his actions.
5. He does not care about you
Another sign that he has no feelings for you is that he does not care about you.
I mean, having feelings and caring are inseparable.
They go hand-in-hand.
One can’t exist without the other.
The painful thing about caring is that people tend to wear it on their sleeves.
What I mean is that you know immediately if someone cares about you or not.
It’ll be written all over them, and the person cannot pretend about it.
There are no middle grounds.
It’s either he cares, or he doesn’t.
And you’re well aware that he doesn’t care about you, but you choose to live in denial.
What a pity!
For instance, whenever you’re talking about anything that concerns you, he doesn’t wait for you to finish before waving off your complaint as if you’re some sort of disturbance.
Then, he goes ahead to rant about himself and expects you to listen to him and, perhaps, take action if you can.
Perhaps you need a rude awakening moment to accept that this guy doesn’t care about you.
Don’t worry, it’s coming to you soon.
6. He no longer spends time with you
A guy who doesn’t have feelings for you won’t spend time with you.
In life, the only thing that makes us equal is time because we all have the same time every day.
So, it’s safe to say that time is the greatest asset anyone can have.
If you care about someone, you’ll naturally give your time to them.
You’ll want to spend enough time with them.
And if you make plans with them and somehow they fall through, you’ll feel bad for not spending time with them.
It happens to everyone, including men.
So, if this guy never has time for you and doesn’t spend time with you, he has no feelings for you.
Please, stop disturbing yourself about him and move on with your life.
7. Your instincts tell you that he has no feelings for you
Trust your instincts, they say.
They rarely lie, they say.
You’ve been going with the mantra up until now because it involves you directly.
Lol.
Perhaps your instincts have been nudging you that you’re doing too much for this guy who doesn’t have feelings for you.
But you turn a deaf ear and keep doing your thing.
The more you try to suppress it, the more you get red flags from this guy.
You are just getting warnings about how shabbily he’ll treat you if you don’t back off from wasting your time with him.
You better listen to your instincts.
They do not lie.
What Can You Do If He Has No Feelings For You?
You can’t reject yourself, even if the whole world rejects you.
If he has no feelings for you, handle it like it’s not a big deal (it isn’t, actually).
In the words of Nigerian Singer Adekunle Gold, “There’s a man for every woman and a woman for every man.”
Your own man will come along at the right time.
But while waiting, make sure that you don’t settle for less.
Go for more because that’s what you deserve.
When a guy has no feelings for you, that’s not the end of the world.
I know that you like this guy, but he doesn’t feel the same way towards you.
The earlier you start losing your feelings for him, the better it’ll be for you.
Not only will it preserve your dignity and self-respect, but it’ll also protect you from being treated anyhow by a man who doesn’t care about you.
As long as he isn’t the air you breathe, you’ll be fine without him.