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Have you ever met a person who loves to blame everyone else but themselves? This behavior can be very unnerving. Now imagine being married to a man who blames you for everything in his life. In Nigerian parlance, “shege banza” (contextually meaning utter rubbish)! Notwithstanding, let’s look at the likely reasons your husband blames you … Read more
Magnets are very powerful attractors. They will literally seek out the iron in their surrounding by attracting them. Do you feel your husband is like a magnet seeking female attention? Does your husband enjoy having females around him? Understandably, you’d want answers, and that is why we will be discussing ten possible reasons your husband … Read more
Have you ever met a man who constantly puts his wife down or, as Nigerians put it, “downgrades” her? Well, I have, and it was irritating. It felt as if he kept looking for opportunities to tell us that his wife wasn’t a good person. I found it very toxic, and I doubted everything he … Read more
Believe it or not, some people struggle with fear that their husbands will leave them. The fear lives rent-free in their mind, and they feel that way for various reasons. However, fear is such a crazy driver, and it can make people make irrational decisions out of paranoia. For starters, it would be best to … Read more
Marriage is not a bed of roses. Heck! Even roses have thorns. Every marriage has its ups and downs. Even the seemingly ‘perfect’ couples have arguments and disagreements, and during these altercations, there are some hurtful words that can be said in anger. Perhaps your husband has called you stupid during arguments. Out of other … Read more
Do you think that your boyfriend’s behavior towards you has changed over time? It’s more like he’s so unlike the man who you fell in love with and was dating initially. No one will fault you if you think that his feelings for you have changed (read as deteriorated). Depending on the couple and the … Read more
You know a guy who has a girlfriend who appears pretty both inside and out. In fact, many people envy their relationship, and it doesn’t look like anything will go wrong with it. Then, from nowhere, you begin to hear rumors of him cheating on her. You think to yourself, “That’s impossible. He has a … Read more
Let’s say that you met a guy at an event, and you both got talking. You liked his vibes, couldn’t stop talking to each other all through the party, and even flirted with him. To your greatest surprise, he bid you goodbye and left the event without as much as collecting your phone number. Can … Read more
Most people who find love want to hold on to it and never let it go. I said ‘most people’ because not all of us feel the same way about love. For some people, falling in love and being in a relationship is not so important. And it’s this category of people who are not … Read more
So, you meet a guy who tells you that he has a girlfriend. He never keeps it away from you from the onset. But somehow, both of you click and hit it off as friends. Several hangouts and dates later, you discover that this guy not only ticks all your boxes, but you also like … Read more