6 Signs He Is Not Afraid Of Losing You

Most people who find love want to hold on to it and never let it go.

I said ‘most people’ because not all of us feel the same way about love.

For some people, falling in love and being in a relationship is not so important.

And it’s this category of people who are not afraid of losing the people who love them, or they love.

Various factors can cause their nonchalance towards love – they’re unavailable emotionally, scared of commitment, pretending to be in love with you, or love isn’t a priority to them yet.

It doesn’t matter what the reasons are; the hurt that comes with learning that your partner is not afraid of losing you is just as profound.

As a lady, you’ll want to know what these signs are.

At least, the knowledge will help cushion the hurt a bit.

 

1. He dumps his frustrations on you

Does he usually dump his frustrations on you?

It’s one of the signs he is not afraid of losing you.

If a man wants to keep you, he’ll never turn you into an emotional thrash bin where he pours every manner of frustration.

The love and adoration he has for you will be a major reason he will shield you from the frustrations he is facing at that point.

However, with this guy, you’re experiencing a different thing.

He feels entitled to your listening to and sympathizing with every unfortunate incident in his life.

He doesn’t care if you are not mentally capable to handle the situation as long as you’re there to suck up all his, all is well with the world.

Don’t get me wrong.

Showing concern about your partner (including their problems) is normal in relationships.

What’s not normal in this scenario, is he dumping every single problem he has on you and turning you into an accidental therapist with his problems.

He doesn’t care about you genuinely, and this is a way to know that.

 

2. He’s not interested in spending time with you

Who claims to be in love with you but never has the time to or isn’t interested in spending time with you?

A man who is not afraid of losing you.

Let’s turn the table around for a bit.

If you’re in love, how do you act about a guy you don’t want to lose?

I’m sure that you’ll create time to be with him, focus on him, and observe everything about him whenever you’re with him.

I want to let you know something.

Men know what they want.

They’re not naive.

Every one of them has a priority list, and they make their decisions in relation to their priorities.

If he’s afraid of losing you, he’ll not stop showing you that you’re his top priority and that you mean the world to him.

This will include the quantity and quality of time he spends with you.

But if he doesn’t consider you worthy or important enough to spend his time with, he won’t bother.

There’s a chance that the thought of losing you has crossed his mind, and he couldn’t care less.

 

3. He shies away from meeting with your loved ones

A man who genuinely cares about and is interested in you will be eager and enthusiastic about meeting your friends and family.

He’ll want to get to know your loved ones on a personal level and make good impressions on them.

He jumps at every opportunity to create more connections around the relationship because he doesn’t want to lose you, and he likes what he has with you to grow into something better.

The reverse is the case for a man who is not afraid of losing you.

This man acts uninterested and shies away from meeting those who are important to you.

If you’re observant, you might notice that he puts effort into making sure that he doesn’t meet with your loved ones.

He’s only interested in getting the benefits of being in a relationship but doesn’t want to put in the work.

I know that every relationship moves at its own pace, but this is a no-no.

Even if your man is not ready to meet with your family yet, there’s no harm in meeting with some of your friends.

 

4. He refuses to compromise with you

Compromise is a very important quality that’s needed in every human relationship, be it friendship, everyday interactions, or romantic relationships.

So, if the guy you’re dating doesn’t ever reach a compromise with you, then you need to question his intentions toward you and the relationship.

This has nothing to do with being the stronger or dominant partner because even alpha males have successful relationships, which is characterized with compromise where necessary.

If he’s constantly blaming you for every misfortune that comes his way, stops at nothing to push you to your limit, and never wants to meet you in the middle, he’s being mean and inconsiderate.

That’s exactly how a guy who is not afraid of losing you acts.

His actions and inactions point to the fact that he indirectly wants out and wouldn’t even mind losing you on the long run.

 

5. He flirts with other girls in your presence

Does he flirt with other girls right in front of you?

That’s very disappointing of him.

Again, it’s one of the signs he is not afraid of losing you.

Except you’re in an open relationship with him, this particular action of his will make you feel bad and sad.

He knows the effect his actions have on you, but he simply doesn’t care about how you feel.

A guy who cares about your feelings won’t hurt you intentionally at all; talk more of going to such great lengths.

It’s clear now that this guy doesn’t value or respect you.

He’s only interested in satisfying his selfish desires and cares less about your feelings.

It also shows that he doesn’t respect you or what you share.

 

 

6. He thinks that he wields great power over you

Does he like to think that he wields an immense amount of power over you?

That guy must be a douchebag!

Do you know what they say about people who have nothing to lose?

They’re most likely to act recklessly and misbehave in every type of relationship.

That’s when the power imbalance in a relationship becomes very glaring.

Let me break it down.

You have feelings for this guy, while he doesn’t give a hoot about your feelings.

It’s a no-brainer that he has all the power in the relationship because you’ll want to do all his bidding in order to make him stay with you.

What a pathetic way to live!

It’ll surely end in tears for you because nothing you ever do can be enough to make someone who is not into you stay with you.

He’s not afraid of losing you because you’re the one who’s afraid of losing him.

So, he leverages that to misbehave and wield power over you.

It’s such a torture being with a man who is not afraid of losing you

It simply means that he has no feelings for you and is not even decent about it.

Any decent man may not have feelings for you but will respect you and treat you well to some extent.

It’s unfortunate that you got yourself into this situation, but it’s not too late.

Firstly, you need a confidence boost to help you realize that you’re worth more than you’ll ever get from your relationship with that guy.

When you’ve built your level of self-confidence, you’ll know that you deserve better and leave that sham of a relationship.

Trust me, you’re losing nothing by leaving this guy.

In due time, a man who will treat you right and will be too scared of losing you will come your way.